DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF

Wished that I knew what I know now. What do I know now? What have I learnt? What I have learnt is to remind myself every day.... is that none of IT matters. Yes, none of ANYTHING matter. Everything is neutral.

Sitting in traffic. Missing a flight. A bad cup of $5 coffee. A woman sitting in her car...no, squatting!... WHAT IS SHE DOING!, while you're waiting with your blinkers for her to pull out.

Why she didn't call? Why didn't he reply my sms? How come she doesn't pick up my call? What did I do? What is she doing? Did I mess up? Is he scheming world war III? Have aliens kidnapped her? Maybe he is in a fix....but why doesn't he ask me for help? What's wrong with me???

We waste our energy and too much of our lives getting upset, being stressed, overly worried about what are only annoyances. ''Ask yourself, will this matter in a year?"

What I know now? What I've learned, but what I have to remind myself every day, is that life lessons aren't something you memorize like 2-times-2 or ''Four score and seven years ago" and that's it.

Life lessons -- stay calm, be patient, don't sweat the small stuff -- fade. You have to relearn them again and again....oh....and everything that happens are small stuff!

Things happen to make you learn. And if you don't learn the lesson being taught, it will happen again and again until you finally learn...why not learn it the first time round? So instead of asking yourself "why did this happen to me?" or "why am I so unlucky?" ask yourself "Why can I learn from this?" and "What good can I see of this?"